Put aside your
notions of modesty
“I am very humble,
sir!”
-Uriah Heep (a
character in David Copperfield, by Charle Dickens)
Sometime during the
spring of my junior year in high school, my school’s guidance counselor
visited each homeroom to tell us how to research and apply for
scholarships. I can’t remember most of the details that he told us that
day, but I do remember one thing he said--a statement of overwhelming
truth:
“A
competitive application process should not be an exercise in modesty. Give
yourself as much credit as you can within the bounds of honesty.”
Although he didn’t
use the term “marketing” that day, personal marketing was the process that
he was describing. What is true for high school students seeking
scholarships is true for you as a job applicant. If there are a hundred
candidates vying for a particular job, then one of them is going to win
and ninety-nine of them are going to lose. This is a competition. And
under these intensely competitive circumstances, you need to take the
advice of my high school guidance counselor, giving yourself as much
credit as you can without straying into outright falsehoods.
If you experience any
pangs of guilt as you shed your humbleness, remember that companies
themselves display a similar lack of modesty when they market their
products and services to consumers. When was the last time you saw a TV
commercial that portrayed the company’s product in an unflattering light?
And how many brochures list the top five reasons why you should buy from
the firm’s competition?
Counterpoint:
Be confident--not cocky
The absence of
modesty is not the same as arrogance, carelessness, or a lack of respect
for others. The non-modest
approach described herein simply grants you permission to be your own
advocate at all times. This includes the freedom from self-incrimination,
or self-sabotage; you are not obliged to volunteer any information
that might be disadvantageous to your cause.
Copyright 2006 Beechmont Crest Publishing